a little of this and a little of that.
The advocates, the resistors, and everyone else.
It is the advocates and resistors that always stand out. We know them. We hear them. And their words, for better or worse, are like tidalwaves, rising above all the others.
Go away anger, you are not welcome here.
Life is finite. I don’t have time for anger, but sometimes I will sit in its viscosity just long enough to flirt with its power. Then, I will banish it.
The Gift of 2020
2020 has been enlightening, thought-provoking, validating, and downright exceptional in all the best and worst ways. But one thing stands unique among the rest. The unexpected gift of personal connection in the absence of physical connection.
The gingerbread chronicles.
While we have been joyously living and working and schooling together, on top of one another, day in and day out for 266 days (give or take), I failed to calculate the realities of this cooperative and creative togetherness project at a time when togetherness is not what we are lacking
Unpaid work and gender balance.
The unequal distribution of unpaid work is still one of the most pressing problems affecting women in our time and, in particular, their economic advancement. Why is it, that today, there is still a gendered division of labor even in the most progressive and equality driven countries?
Stoicism, gratitude, and my mother.
Today we often think of someone that is stoic as someone that is void of emotion or someone that can endure without complaining. But, the stoics of ancient times were far more emotionally evolved than this simple modern definition.
But, she will move mountains.
She is confident with her sting because she is safe. She knows I wouldn’t trade motherhood for the world. She knows I love her and that I love being her mother and that I wouldn’t give up any of the joy or anguish of it.
Finding passion and purpose (aka “Unicorn space”)
Unicorn Space. Doesn’t this sound like a beautiful mental and physical space, albeit mythical, to frolic and flourish? It conjures up something untouchable and fantastical, that only certain highly qualified and privileged people could possibly find.
What a meh year, but I will eat cake!
Today is the first day of the last year in my forties. Meh.
What the F*ck happened to this last decade? I’ve hardly come up for air from my 40th birthday and yet suddenly this decade is now coming to a close
My father.
Happy Father’s Day to my father in heaven, and to all the fathers who have the love, strength, conviction, and confidence to uplift and support the strong women in their lives to pursue lives well lived.
About silence.
Silence doesn’t always imply that someone doesn’t care or doesn’t understand or disagrees with the issues at hand. Instead, silence comes from a place of fear and exposure. We are afraid that we will expose our ignorance on hard topics like race, especially to people whose life experience make them more fluent on this topic.
The leader of the future.
Let’s be real. Again.
The leaders of the future look nothing like the leaders of the past. And, let’s hope, the leaders of today undergo an evolution that will enable the workforce of the future to be everything that we expect and hope for them to be. We ARE counting on them.
Hey, it’s 2020. This is what we know.
Hey, it's 2020. This is what we know.
Women entrepreneurs in Peru and why they matter.
Peru over the last two decades has seen a continued rise in the number of women entrepreneurs in part as a result of several business and government partnerships, like Dreambuilder, which assist in providing free access to business training for women.
Melinda Gates and her three strategies for gender equality.
Whether you are reading it out of curiosity on what will drive the needle for gender equality or reading because you were a fan of Bill Gates and want to see what his wife has been up to, it really doesn’t matter. Just read it, and read ALL of it. She has spelled out perfectly, in three simple to follow strategies, what we need to do NOW to reach gender equality.
Penalties, syndromes, and revolutions.
Everything has a label these days.
When it comes to gender topics (most especially those associated with women) we see this negative rhetoric all the time. We hear things about the motherhood penalty, the double burden syndrome, and the stalled gender revolution.
The silver bullet for gender balance.
To increase gender balance means to begin tackling a series of interconnected issues that span structural, psychological, and societal realms. Companies are mini cultures and each company has its own customs, habits, norms, and challenges.
The quiet middle.
Pay close attention to the quiet people, the people that may not speak up or speak out on gender equality. This group of people may be your single most important asset in your quest to achieve gender balance at the organizational level
Flex work is for slackers.
Does that title piss you off? Well, it should.
It’s time we change the narrative on “flex-work” and look deeply at what it is, who it benefits, and why it’s possibly the single most important requirement for today’s modern worker
The resolute women of gen X.
The resolute women of Gen X are not shying away from the hard work, instead they are confronting outdated historical norms head on and cementing new foundations upon which future generations can build their craft and flourish.